Sister Behling and I have done a lot to keep the branch together, and Saturday was the branch Christmas party. It was a mess of running back and forth and back and forth. It was suppose to start at 5. It started at 7:30. It was just a mess that no one should ever have to live through. The Branch President just came and dropped off his kids then left. So i wont give details ;) But for the Christmas party, sister Behling and I preformed the line dances to Boot Scootin Boogie and Fishin in the Dark, and It. Was. AWESOME. I felt SO normal! The youth loved it too and caught on to some of the dance!
Yesterday for Christmas Eve we went to Pohnrakied and performed the nativity with zero practice. There were many songs and it was quite an interesting experience. I was a shepherd and so was Sister petrus. the rest were all Elders. It was kinda awkward when the shepherds sang the very tenor shepherd song. After the performance we got presents from the local people and they danced for us and it was great :) It's VERY entertaining watching elders try not to watch a hula dance haha
We showered at the Kolonia house so that was great! First actual shower I've had in a while. We've been taking bucket showers cuz our pump is out again. After that, we drove home and listened to christmas music, made chestnuts and had grahm crackers and milk :) I was very happy. Then we read the christmas story and went to bed at like midnight. this morning we slept in and then opened presents!! It was very fun and we felt oh so cozy :)
This week I've learned SO much about Love. That's really all people need. In the Kitti Branch, there are many things wrong, and there are many unworthy priesthood holders, there are many falsish doctrine ideas, and there are many bad feelings, people are frustrated, people are late, people don't care, and people get offended. For many many years, the missionaries in the Kitti Branch area(s) have seen it like a technician, an engineer I guess you could say ;) It's a problem, and it needs to be fixed. The priesthood isn't worthy, so we need to tell them to be worthy, the people are late, so we need to tell them to be on time. The people aren't being happy, so we need to tell them to be happy. But I don't think that's proved much success.
What Kitti Branch needs, what people need, is just love. So what if the priesthood isn't worthy, that can be fixed. So what if people are late, that can be fixed. So on and so forth, but really, how I've found that we fix it is through just truly loving and showing a genuine interest in the individual. Loving them and supporting them, flaws and all! I had an experience yesterday that really strengthened my testimony and was truly seeing things through the eyes of a loving God. A few sundays ago Sister P's daughter was bawling and bawling through sacrament meeting. She of course smacked her to make her be quiet (that's just what the people here do), but that made the girl more and more upset and threw her into a wailing tantrum. So she stood up and walked just a little ways into the jungle (like 10 yards away) and started pretty much beating her telling her to be quiet. That didn't work so she just left her there to bawl on the ground. Then she got louder, so Sister P got up again and grabbed a long skinny branch from a nearby bush and stripped it and went to start whipping her child with it (she looks about 2 years old). Thankfully, Megan (The strength of Kitti Branch and an RM) Got up and picked up the little girl and the three of them went off a little farther and just talked.
This week, as we were waiting for Branch President to arrive, the same little girl got her toy stolen from her by probably her older brother. and she started bawling and screaming. So the brother hit her and told her to be quiet. Her mother was off somewhere, and everyone was just staring at her. So I jumped up, and I went over to her. I just knelt down and wiped her tears away and gently told her it's okay, we all love her and she doesn't need to cry. It was all okay. Immediately she stopped wailing and just sniffled as I simply loved her. Even the boy who took her toy kinda stopped and stared. But as I was wiping her tears away, I just felt how much God really loves us. so perfectly. Yes, the girl could have just let the boy take her toy and sit down and deal with it, as many children do. and Yes, the boy was wrong in stealing her things. But I didn't address any of that,I just loved her. Everyone kind of stared in reverent awe. Someone handed me a sucker and I gave it to her. I asked her if she wanted to sit down and she nodded her head and came and sat by me. And for the rest of the meeting, there was very much a reverent peace as everyone felt a little taste of the saviors perfect love for us. It was lovely :)
From that experience and seeing the results of pure Charity, I can truly testify that the quickest way to influence someone for good is to love them. Natural man and everything. It makes the missionary work a lot more enjoyable, and it makes the people a lot happier. It's been a darn good week :) I hope you can all feel my love for you!!!
It's been a rainy chilly Christmas!! And I love it :) Elders are waiting to get on the computer.. I'll talk to you all tomorrow!! Love you!!
Better watch out, better not cry, better not pout
Merry Christmas!
Sister Nicole Felt
We showered at the Kolonia house so that was great! First actual shower I've had in a while. We've been taking bucket showers cuz our pump is out again. After that, we drove home and listened to christmas music, made chestnuts and had grahm crackers and milk :) I was very happy. Then we read the christmas story and went to bed at like midnight. this morning we slept in and then opened presents!! It was very fun and we felt oh so cozy :)
Chestnuts roasting on an open broiler |
What Kitti Branch needs, what people need, is just love. So what if the priesthood isn't worthy, that can be fixed. So what if people are late, that can be fixed. So on and so forth, but really, how I've found that we fix it is through just truly loving and showing a genuine interest in the individual. Loving them and supporting them, flaws and all! I had an experience yesterday that really strengthened my testimony and was truly seeing things through the eyes of a loving God. A few sundays ago Sister P's daughter was bawling and bawling through sacrament meeting. She of course smacked her to make her be quiet (that's just what the people here do), but that made the girl more and more upset and threw her into a wailing tantrum. So she stood up and walked just a little ways into the jungle (like 10 yards away) and started pretty much beating her telling her to be quiet. That didn't work so she just left her there to bawl on the ground. Then she got louder, so Sister P got up again and grabbed a long skinny branch from a nearby bush and stripped it and went to start whipping her child with it (she looks about 2 years old). Thankfully, Megan (The strength of Kitti Branch and an RM) Got up and picked up the little girl and the three of them went off a little farther and just talked.
This week, as we were waiting for Branch President to arrive, the same little girl got her toy stolen from her by probably her older brother. and she started bawling and screaming. So the brother hit her and told her to be quiet. Her mother was off somewhere, and everyone was just staring at her. So I jumped up, and I went over to her. I just knelt down and wiped her tears away and gently told her it's okay, we all love her and she doesn't need to cry. It was all okay. Immediately she stopped wailing and just sniffled as I simply loved her. Even the boy who took her toy kinda stopped and stared. But as I was wiping her tears away, I just felt how much God really loves us. so perfectly. Yes, the girl could have just let the boy take her toy and sit down and deal with it, as many children do. and Yes, the boy was wrong in stealing her things. But I didn't address any of that,I just loved her. Everyone kind of stared in reverent awe. Someone handed me a sucker and I gave it to her. I asked her if she wanted to sit down and she nodded her head and came and sat by me. And for the rest of the meeting, there was very much a reverent peace as everyone felt a little taste of the saviors perfect love for us. It was lovely :)
From that experience and seeing the results of pure Charity, I can truly testify that the quickest way to influence someone for good is to love them. Natural man and everything. It makes the missionary work a lot more enjoyable, and it makes the people a lot happier. It's been a darn good week :) I hope you can all feel my love for you!!!
It's been a rainy chilly Christmas!! And I love it :) Elders are waiting to get on the computer.. I'll talk to you all tomorrow!! Love you!!
Better watch out, better not cry, better not pout
Merry Christmas!
Sister Nicole Felt